Thursday, February 11, 2016

The Heart of a Gamer: An Outsider's Perspective

My yellow blanket bordered my body like a cape with a hood, while I criss-cross-apple-sauced my legs and hunkered over to watch my sister swing Aladdin to catch the digitalized apple on the screen.  As a kid in the nineties, Super Nintendo was a huge marker in childhood activities.  Though, even then, I merely watched my sister and parents play, keeping close so I could shout out all the memorized codes I recalled so they didn’t have to flip through their booklet. 
                I knew what video games were the way I understood what kosher meat meant; it was a name, but it didn’t really pertain to me. My stories were made for the stage of dolls I assembled on the floor while my sister beat Mario in under an hour. She conquered through a multitude of two dimensional games for the Super-Nintendo, and played a few on the N-64, but as her interest waned in the gaming form, so did my connection to it. I spent most of the new millennium oblivious to almost any and all forms of video-art (except for the Sims, I love those pants-peeing little bastards). Until I met the gamer who would turn out to be my lover and heart.
                When we met, he said he was a gamer working for a gaming charity. I immediately thought of the only games I knew from the past fifteen years of sprinkled headlines that seeped through the media and acquaintances. Halo was revered by kids from high school. Call of Duty, as one of the reasons a close couple friends of mine almost hit splits-vill. And lastly, Grand Theft Auto from being called a gateway to the center of the hell candy bar in my extremely Christian teenage years. I had no idea what surface I had just scratched.
                The first time I went to his house he showed me what video games really are in this new century. I sat against the black of the desk chair and began to watch him play as nostalgia of childhood danced in my head. However, this wasn’t the paper and tiny bit world of Aladdin. The man on the screen breathed, walked, and talked like an actor in an action movie. He flew from roof-top to roof-top to save the working children and win over the area. I could not believe what I saw in a game. Everything worked and entertained like Pixar’s more talented cousin. I had the preconceived notion that games were just a recreation like playing Clue or Monopoly. I was wrong and very wrong.
                 This is more than just a nighttime activity, or a visual entertainment. This is what pumps into the thumping ventricle that feeds life into their being. This is the heart of a gamer; their very soul. Each game plays a differentiated depth of story, enveloping a person into the world much like a well-written book does to a reader. However, alongside the engaging story, a player interacts with the oncoming obstacles, using a combination of syncing, speed, and strategy to defeat, collect, and ultimately win the game.
                Society places a stigma on gamers (and admittedly I did too) that the person is a lazy, inanimate, and thoughtless creature who prowls the graphic world instead of actively seeking human socialization. Media boasts articles that link video games to poor performance, ADHD, violence, and a gambit of other demonizing speculations to spin games and gamers into a negative connotation.  Though, with proper investigation, the witch hunt has ceased save for the few outbursts, The stereotype stuck: Video games and gamers are bad for society.
Before my own gamer, I’d hear the horrors relayed by my gal pals of what it was like to be in a relationship with a person who played.  She would always go to the whining tune of, “He loves video games more than me!” Who was I to say otherwise at that point? Maybe he did. Maybe she was an over-dramatic attention seeking insecure female who spent twelve hours shopping. Yet, I could not judge.
However, my own jury is in. (I will save the mush for another article) I can clearly say that the idea of a man hunched over with a liter of soda and cheese-puff dusted hands to be a myth. Any and all cheese-snacking is mere coincidence. People get invested in things they love, why can’t gamers?
As for the lazy and thoughtless aspect, that is another lie. The groups of gamers I have encountered through watching the Streams, or live gameplay that you can view, have been hard working individuals who raise money for charity, like Gamergiving. All of the individuals have jobs or attend school outside of running the charity.  They take time off of their own to use Stream as an entertaining platform to reach others to fund. This group of talented and often comedic players seeks to bring a community together for the benefit of those less fortunate or in need of special assistance.
If the cliché is you can’t judge a book by it’s cover, then you cannot judge a gamer by them playing a game. The heart of a gamer is not a tampered menace; it is just in a higher resolution than most. My love of stuffed crust oozing cheese pizza never gave back to humanity, but the love of a gamer can. And if you want to learn more, I’ll post the link at the bottom:
GamerGiving

               


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